Get intimate with your vagina in 3 easy steps

May 22, 2024

Get intimate with your vagina in 3 easy steps

Your vagina is an amazing part of your body, deserving of care and attention just like any other body part. And yet, somehow vaginas get forgotten when we talk about self-care and body care. Talking about vaginal health can be stigmatizing or embarrassing for many people. It's time to release yourself from these limitations and give this vital component of your body the attention it deserves.

The silence around vaginal health can lead to misinformation, discomfort, and even neglect of essential self-care practices. By breaking the stigma and fostering an open, honest dialogue about vaginal health, we can empower ourselves and others to embrace proper care practices and advocate for our well-being without shame or embarrassment.

Step 1: Understanding Vaginal Health

The vagina is a remarkable organ with complex anatomy and functions. Understanding its structure is important for maintaining optimal health. Get to know your anatomy; from the vaginal canal to the external vulva, each part plays a unique role in sexual

pleasure, childbirth, and maintaining a health pH. The more you know and understand, the more you’ll be able to recognize if something is off. You can even use a mirror to get a good look, so you’re familiar with how everything in your particular anatomy looks. No two vulvas are the same. Self-examination is an empowering practice that lets you become familiar with your body's normal state and detect any changes early on.

 Vaginal discharge is a natural part of the body's self-cleansing process.

However, color, consistency, or odor changes can indicate potential issues. Learning to distinguish between normal variations, hormone changes, and signs of infection or imbalance is key to maintaining vaginal health and seeking timely medical intervention when needed.

Despite our best efforts, vaginal health issues may still arise. From yeast infections to bacterial vaginosis and sexually transmitted infections, it is essential to recognize the symptoms and know how to address them effectively. Regular visits to a gynecologist are vital for maintaining overall vaginal health. By prioritizing routine gynecological visits, you can identify and address any potential issues promptly.

Step 2: Adopt Best Practices for Vagina Care

Hygiene Habits

When it comes to cleansing your vagina, less is often more. Avoid harsh soaps or cleansers that can disrupt the natural pH balance and delicate flora of the vagina. Instead, opt for a gentle, pH-balanced, foaming cleanser like Intime Fresh and warm water for external cleansing. Another cleanser specifically formulated for the vaginal area with added Aloe Vera is Intime Balance Intimate Cleansing Gel. These products help maintain the acidic pH of the vagina, which is crucial for keeping harmful bacteria in check and preventing infections.

Clothing and Fabrics

Cotton underwear is a top choice for vaginal health due to its breathable nature. Unlike synthetic materials, cotton allows air to circulate freely, reducing moisture buildup and minimizing the risk of bacterial overgrowth and yeast infections. Opt for underwear made from 100% cotton whenever possible, especially during warmer months or when engaging in physical activity.

Tight-fitting clothing, such as skinny jeans or leggings, can trap heat and moisture around the vaginal area, creating an environment conducive to bacterial growth and irritation. Decide on loose-fitting clothing styles that allow for air circulation, particularly in the genital region. Flowy skirts, loose-fitting pants, and breathable fabrics like linen or cotton can help keep the vaginal area cool and dry, reducing the risk of discomfort and infections.

Sexual Health

Practicing safe sex by using condoms and other barrier methods like Lorals is essential for protecting against sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and preventing unintended pregnancies. Additionally, consider using water-based lubricants like Pure Aqua to reduce friction and discomfort during intercourse, which can help prevent microtears and reduce the risk of STIs. Regular STI testing is crucial for the early detection and treatment of infections. Being proactive about your sexual health not only protects you but also promotes a culture of responsibility and respect within sexual relationships.

Sexual pleasure is an important aspect of overall well-being and can contribute to a positive sense of self and intimate connection with partners. Prioritize your pleasure by exploring your desires, communicating openly with your partner(s), and experimenting with different techniques and activities that bring you joy and satisfaction. Every individual's pleasure preferences are unique, and understanding your pleasure-based anatomy is key to enhancing sexual satisfaction. Take the time to explore your body, including erogenous zones like the clitoris, G-spot, and A-spot. Experiment with different types of stimulation, such as manual touch, oral sex, or sex toys, to discover what feels most pleasurable for you.

Menstrual Care

When it comes to menstrual products, there are several options available, including pads, tampons, and menstrual cups. Choosing the right product for you depends on factors such as your flow, comfort preferences, and lifestyle. Consider trying different products to find what works best for you in terms of comfort, convenience, and environmental impact. Also, be mindful of what your menstrual products are made out of. Some materials are better for your body's health than others. Regardless of the menstrual product you choose, it's essential to change it regularly to prevent bacterial overgrowth and reduce the risk of infections. Pads should be changed every 4-6 hours, or more frequently if they become saturated. Tampons should be changed every 4-8 hours to prevent bacterial growth and reduce the risk of toxic shock syndrome (TSS). Menstrual cups can typically be worn for up to 12 hours, but it's essential to empty and rinse them regularly to maintain proper hygiene. Additionally, wash your hands thoroughly before and after handling menstrual products to prevent the spread of bacteria.

Hydration and Movement

Adequate hydration is essential for vaginal health as well as overall bodily functions. Drinking plenty of water helps maintain hydration levels, which in turn helps keep vaginal tissues moist and supple. Proper hydration can also help prevent urinary tract infections (UTIs) and promote the flushing out of toxins from the body. Aim to drink at least 8-10 glasses of water per day, or more if you're physically active or in hot weather. Regular physical activity also plays a role in promoting vaginal health. Exercise helps improve blood circulation throughout the body, including the pelvic region, which can support vaginal tissue health and elasticity. Additionally, regular exercise can help reduce stress levels, improve mood, and boost overall well-being, all of which can positively impact vaginal health.

Step 3: Embrace Your Vagina

Society often perpetuates unrealistic standards of beauty, including those related to genital appearance. It's essential to challenge these norms and celebrate the diversity of vaginal anatomy. Just like any other part of the body, vaginas come in all shapes, sizes, and colors, and each is unique and beautiful in its own way. Developing a positive relationship with your body, including your vagina, is crucial for your overall well-being. Take time to appreciate your body's strength, resilience, and beauty, and prioritize activities that make you feel good, whether it's meditation, yoga, or simply pampering yourself with a relaxing bath or massage.

Now you’re ready to take charge of your vaginal health!

Knowledge is power when it comes to vaginal health. By educating yourself about your body, understanding its needs, and adopting healthy habits, you can take control of your vaginal health and empower yourself to make informed decisions about your well-being. Remember that you are the best advocate for your health, and by prioritizing self-care and regular check-ups, you can proactively maintain vaginal health throughout your life. It's time to break the stigma surrounding vaginal health and sexuality and normalize conversations about these important topics. ourselves and others to live our best, healthiest lives. Remember, your vaginal health matters, and you have the power to take charge and prioritize it every day.


Carly Make Up and SinCarly S. (@Makeupandsin) is the Queen of Wands, pleasure educator, porn star, model, blogger of Dildo or Dildont, and a bad bitch from the Bronx. Nominated for Xbiz Sexpert of the year 2023, she’s managed and been the featured educator of some of NYC’s award-winning sex toy stores. You may have seen her teach at Exxxotica, Cycles and Sex, Sex Expo, read her work in Cosmopolitan, glamour, shape, or heard her on countless podcasts. 

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