Arousal: Getting & Staying in the Mood

July 10, 2020

Arousal: Getting & Staying in the Mood

By: Jacquetta Szathmari


Women’s sexual arousal is an ongoing affair between mind and body, and even when the body may be willing, the mind can sometimes be the weak link. Many women struggle to block out the daily stress, distractions, and negativity that keep us from engaging in mind-blowing erotic encounters at the frequency we desire and deserve.

To stimulate, intensify, and maintain desire, activate your intellect early and often. Don’t worry, we have you covered with quick tips for a sun-up to sun-down seduction that will get you and your partner in the mood and help you stay that way all day!


Don’t Wait to Titillate

Mornings can be so hectic, and the stress of preparing for a long day can be the arch enemy of sexual arousal.  So, help start the day off right with some relaxing aromatherapy and intimate self-care to get everyone's mood in the right place.

Place a fresh foaming intimate cleanser or an all natural intimate moisturizer in the bathroom as a sensual eye-opener.  Taking the time for intimate care in the morning can really start the day off on a fresh and frisky note!   

Sexy MadlibsKeep the seduction going and tuck a pheromone enhancing body mist where it might be discovered later, and write a romantic note suggesting a playful agenda for the evening.

Writing a few lines may seem intimidating but here’s an easy way to do it (check out the example)!  Think of this as a sexy mad-lib and fill in the blanks accordingly. 

Another option is to quote a lyric from a song you both like—keep it to two or three lines, put quotes, and list the writer’s name because citation is sexy, too. Or keep it real simple and draw a heart on a slip of paper and sign your name. Maybe they will even write you back!


Let’s Talk About Text, Baby

Whether you're telecommuting or you're miles away at your place of work, consider spilling some erotic digital ink to let your partner know you’re thinking about them. Not sure how to proceed? Level up your sexting game with the Do You app

Do You will sex you both up with erotic content including reviews, sensual art, sexual wellness advice, and some very stimulating how-to's. Plus, we love Do You’s choose-your-own-adventure fantasies that allow curious users to role play via text in the genre of their choice—sexy shape shifters, kinky co-workers, and alluring aliens welcome. It's a really great way to let your inhibitions go and take your sexting skills to a higher level.  Available in the App Store, it’s discreet, consensual, and will keep you turned on even after you’ve logged off!


Love Well, Love Gel

Cap off your commute or celebrate that last Zoom of the day by, literally, putting love in the air!  Spray a sexy, mood boosting scent, like our Angel's Dream perfume mist made with rhodiola rosea. The perfect end-of-day pick-me-up, our atomizer does double duty as a body spray and a room scent (a quick spritz on a fresh set of sheets isn’t a bad idea either).

Ready to let loose some of that sexual energy that's been brewing since the morning? Add some excitement to your evening with some of our favorite pleasure enhancers.

Send ripples through the universe and tingles down your spine with our oh-so-creamy nipple arousal creams. Don’t let the cute packaging fool you! This little fruit packs a big punch, delivering a gentle cooling sensation that'll get your libido turned up to ten.  

Next, surprise your partner with well-placed, tingling, strawberrylicious kisses all over their body! Our sugar free strawberry arousal lip gloss with hot and cold effect is perfect for lips, nips, and tips.

Once everyone is all turned on, leap over the edge into a world of intensified orgasmic bliss with one of our three flavors of cooling arousal gels Remember, a dab'll do ya! Cue fireworks! 


Jacquetta Szathmari, Dernier MileJacquetta Szathmari is a New York based writer and the founder of Dernier Mile, a boutique consultancy providing last minute and last mile solutions for your content-intensive, logistically complex, and totally unique creative projects.


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